Here is a
topic which gets me all confused, Love. The phrase I hear the most being shot
at me when it comes to Love is "you won't understand because you haven't
experienced it". Sometimes I get angry when people say this, and sometimes
it gets me thinking. Is it true? Do I really not understand love?
Of course I love my family and friends, and I understand love to that extend. But what about this love for the special someone, the so called soul mate, the love of your life, the one or any other name that people might refer it to. Is it that different from the love that you have for others? Does it really exists, the willingness to do anything and go to any heights for that one person that you love? Maybe it does, because people sometimes do weird things in the name of love.
Well I’m not sure what I experienced was love or not. But in the course of hitting 20 and moving on to 27, I did come across two exceptional girls that captured my mind, or some would say "my heart". They had two different personalities but both were special personalities in their own way. They were friends of mine, nothing was done and they remained just friends. Why was I attracted to them? Well as I said, their personality was something special.
I do not know whether it was love, a crush, infatuation or whatever else that it can be called. But it was a feeling, a great feeling none the less. If it was not love, than it means that I have not felt love yet, but if it was, than it means that I missed a possible soul mate. Why was it missed? If the feelings were there, why wasn't it pursued?
Well, the one word answer would be commitment. What commitment? Well let’s just leave it for some other day.
Of course I love my family and friends, and I understand love to that extend. But what about this love for the special someone, the so called soul mate, the love of your life, the one or any other name that people might refer it to. Is it that different from the love that you have for others? Does it really exists, the willingness to do anything and go to any heights for that one person that you love? Maybe it does, because people sometimes do weird things in the name of love.
Well I’m not sure what I experienced was love or not. But in the course of hitting 20 and moving on to 27, I did come across two exceptional girls that captured my mind, or some would say "my heart". They had two different personalities but both were special personalities in their own way. They were friends of mine, nothing was done and they remained just friends. Why was I attracted to them? Well as I said, their personality was something special.
I do not know whether it was love, a crush, infatuation or whatever else that it can be called. But it was a feeling, a great feeling none the less. If it was not love, than it means that I have not felt love yet, but if it was, than it means that I missed a possible soul mate. Why was it missed? If the feelings were there, why wasn't it pursued?
Well, the one word answer would be commitment. What commitment? Well let’s just leave it for some other day.
Well..ask urself..did u wan that person to be the one u wanna spend the rest of ur life with..do u wan her to b the mother to ur children..n do u think u still want her wen she's old n demented..n is she the wan u wanna go to sleep with each nite even if she nags all day,looks like a hagard housewife n doesnt seem as sweet n romantic as she seems wen courting..if yes..then there u go..
ReplyDeleteI never did ask myself that. The wall that I put up in between me and others doesn’t let me think of anything beyond. It's a miserable self defect.
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